Getting Past Gambling

A place to come and share experiences, to find support and strength, for those of us who are putting gambling behind us and finding new exciting and happier ways to live our lives.
" You never achieve real success unless you like what you are doing."
*Dale Carnegie {1888-1955 American Author & Achievement Expert}


Monday, February 27, 2006

DAILY GURU

THERE ARE NO SHORT CUTS TO SUCCESS

There's a price to pay if you want to make things better, and a price to pay for just leaving things as they are.

Whatever you want in life, you must give up something to get it.

The greater the value, the greater the sacrifice required of you.

Nothing worthwhile ever comes easily.

Work, continuous work and hard work,
is the only way to accomplish results that last.


Use your imagination more than your memory to achieve success.

There is no success at bargain basement prices.

Everything has a price.

Thursday, February 23, 2006

DAILY GURU

"Appreciation"

"You can never get to peace and inner security without first acknowledging all of the good things in your life. If you're forever wanting and longing for more without first appreciating things the way they are, you'll stay in discord."
-- Doc Childre and Howard Martin


Develop an attitude of gratitude. We discover a sense of wholeness as we appreciate both the small and big things in our lives. And it really helps to remember to appreciate ourselves. Appreciation is more than just acceptance -- it's respect and admiration. Let go of criticism and self-abuse.

"Generally, appreciation means some blend of thankfulness, admiration, approval, and gratitude. In the financial world, something that ‘appreciates’ grows in value. With the power tool of appreciation, you get the benefit of both perspectives: as you learn to be consistently thankful and approving, your life will grow in value."
-- Doc Childre and Howard Martin

Wednesday, February 22, 2006

CLEARING SPACE FOR CHANGE.

The Weight Of Objects

In life, we tend to have an easier time acquiring possessions than we do getting rid of them. Just as we harbor emotional baggage that is difficult to let go of, our lives can tend to be filled with material objects that we may feel compelled to hold on to. Most people are not conscious of how much they own and how many of their possessions are no longer adding value to their life. They fiercely hold on to material objects because this makes them feel secure or comfortable.

While it's true that the ownership of "stuff" can make you feel good for awhile, it seldom satisfies the deep inner longings that nearly everyone has for fulfillment and satisfaction. It is only when we are ready to let go of our baggage and be vulnerable that it becomes possible to recognize the emotional hold that our possessions can have on us.

It's not uncommon to hold on to material objects because we are attached to them or fear the empty spaces that will remain if we get rid of them. Giving away the souvenirs from a beloved voyage may feel like we are erasing the memory of that time in our life. We may also worry that our loved ones will feel hurt if we don't keep the gifts they've given us. It's easy to convince ourselves that unused possessions might come in handy someday or that parting with them will cause you emotional pain. However, when your personal space is filled with objects, there is no room for anything new to enter and stay in your life. Your collection of belongings may "protect" you from the uncertainties of an unknown future while keeping you stuck in the past.

Holding on to unnecessary possessions often goes hand in hand with holding on to pain, anger, and resentment, and letting go of your material possessions may help you release emotional baggage. When you make a conscious decision to fill your personal space with only the objects that you need or bring you joy, your energy level will soar.

Clearing your personal space can lead to mental clarity and an improved memory. As you learn to have a more practical and temporary relationship to objects, positive changes will happen, and you'll have space to create the life that you desire

Saturday, February 18, 2006

One Foot Forward Finding Your Next Step In Life.

Our lives are made up of a complex network of pathways that we can use to move from one phase of life to the next. For some of us, our paths are wide, smooth, and clearly marked. Many people, however, find that they have a difficult time figuring out where they need to go next. Determining which "next step" will land you on the most direct route to fulfillment and the realization of your life purpose may not seem easy.

There are many ways to discover what the next step on your life path should be. If you are someone who seeks to satisfy your soul, it is vital that you make this inquiry. Often, your inner voice will counsel you that it's time for a change, and it is very important to trust yourself because only you know what is best for you. Personal growth always results when you let yourself expand beyond the farthest borders of what your life has been so far. When figuring out what your next step will be, you may want to review your life experiences. The choices you've made and the dreams you've held onto can give you an idea of what you don't want to do anymore and what you might like to do next. It is also a good idea to think about creative ways you can use your skills and satisfy your passions. Visualizing your perfect future and making a list of ways to manifest that future can help you choose a logical next step that's in harmony with your desires. Meditation, journal writing, taking a class, and other creative activities may inspire you and provide insight regarding the next step in life that will bring you the most satisfaction.

It is when you are willing to listen to yourself and be fearless that figuring out your next step becomes easy. Beneath the fear and hesitation and uncertainty lies your inner knowing that always knows which step you need to take next. If you can allow the taking of your next step to be as easy as putting one foot in front of the next, you'll notice that your next step is always the one that is right in front of you. All you have to do is put one foot forward and on the ground.

DailyOM [today@dailyom.com]

Wednesday, February 15, 2006

DAILY GURU

SUCCESS IS A CHOICE YOU MAKE

You alone have the responsibility to shape your life.
Once you understand this,
nothing and no one can deny you success.
There's no one to stop you but yourself.
More powerful than all the success slogans ever written is the realization that everyone has but one boss.
That boss is you.
Your life will always be to a large extent what you make of it.
No one can cheat you out of ultimate success but you.
Success or failure?
It's always your choice.
THE DAILY GURU


©2006 by Max Steingart

Friday, February 10, 2006

THE DAILY GURU

YOU MUST MAKE YOUR OWN OPPORTUNITIES

Success doesn't come to you.
You must go to it.
You don't need more strength
or more ability or greater opportunity.
What you need is to use what you have.
The golden opportunity you're seeking is in yourself.
It's not in your environment.
It's not in luck or chance or the help of others.
It's in you.
There will always be a new opportunity
where there is an open mind and a willing hand.
Open your own door to opportunity.
THE DAILY GURU

©2006 by Max Steingart

An Empty Vessel Can Be Filled

An Empty Vessel Can Be FilledThe Power Of Not Knowing

There is wisdom in not knowing, and it is a wise person who can say, "I don't know." For no one knows everything. There are many types of wisdom - from intellectual to emotional to physical intelligence. Yet, even deemed experts in their fields do not know all there is to know about mathematics, yoga, literature, psychology, or art. It is a true master who professes ignorance, for only an empty vessel can be filled.

There are many things in life that we don't know, and there are many things we may have no interest in finding out. There is freedom in saying "I don't know." When we admit that we don't know something, we can then open ourselves up to the opportunity to learn. And there is power in that. We can't possibly know everything. And when we think we do, we limit ourselves from growing and learning more than what we already do know. A person who can admit to not knowing tends to be more intellectually and emotionally confident than someone who pretends to know everything. They also tend to be more comfortable with who they are and don't feel the need to bluff or cover up any perceived ignorance. People can actually end up appearing more foolish when they act as if they know something that they don't.

We would be wise to respect people who freely admit when they don't know something. They are being honest, with us and with themselves. And we, too, should feel no shame in saying, "I don't know." In doing so, we open ourselves up to the unknown. We can then discover what lies beyond our current levels of understanding. It is the wise person in life that answers questions with a question and inspires the pursuit of internal answers with a funny face, a shrug, and a comical, "I don't know."

Wednesday, February 08, 2006

DAILY GURU

"Do You Own Your Life?"

"The meaning of life is to give life meaning."
-- Ken Hudgins


When we own our lives, we accept what we've inherited and the experiences we hold in our memories. We also claim our right to create new conditions if we're not happy with what's come before. We assume responsibility for changing what does not suit us. We acknowledge our own special talents and skills, and truly comprehend our right to enjoy the journey. In short, we embrace the meaning and purpose, the mystery and the beauty of our lives.

Do you feel that you own your life at the moment?

"I think of life itself now as a wonderful play that I've written for myself... and so my purpose is to have the utmost fun playing my part."
-- Shirley MacLaine


"Life is too short to be little."
-- Benjamin Disraeli


"Every man dies, but not every man lives...."
-- Garth Brooks

Tuesday, February 07, 2006

DAILY GURU

LOVE WHAT YOU DO OR DO SOMETHING ELSE

You'll never achieve real success unless you like what you're doing.

No one has ever succeeded in a line of endeavor which they did not like.

Your chances of success are directly proportional to the degree of pleasure you derive from what you do.

If you're in a job you hate,
face the fact squarely and get out.

It's better to be a failure in something you love, than attempting to be a success in something you don't.

Don't set compensation as a goal.

Find the work you love, and the compensation will follow.

The more you love what you are doing,
the more successful it will be for you.


©2006 by Max Steingart

Thursday, February 02, 2006

Join us in Pokies Action at the Victorian Parliament on Tuesday, February 7 - the first day of State Parliament for 2006.

We will be on the steps from 8 am, asking our elected representatives to show us they really support democracy by signing our pledge.

For more info contact Jamie on 9919 4223.

http://pokiesaction.org/